Maybe it is not so amazing, but usually, when everything is going well, and the world is your oyster, we have plenty of friends. Many are willing to help as long as you do not need too much! Others are willing to listen if you are not too depressed, but when the chips are down, such friends are often ‘posted missing’.
Three things mark a true friend: a compassionate heart, a strong shoulder and a listening ear. Such friends are scarce, but if you have one, thank God for them; they are like gold dust. Yet even the best of friends have their limits. They can sympathise and are also available, but they have a life of their own, and sometimes, they need the help they so readily give others. Perhaps you are thinking, 'Is there any other kind of friend?' the answer is ‘Yes’. There is one who has a heart full of compassion, and you mean so much to Him. He will never turn you away, and He never tires of listening to your cry. His shoulder is strong; He can carry you when you cannot take another step. He can lift you up when you have fallen, or others have knocked you down. Furthermore, He can change your circumstances or outlook so that things do not seem as bad as they first appeared. Best of all, He will be with you whether you’re ‘on top of the world’ or you feel the ‘world is on top of you’.
Someone may say, 'Why would He be interested, for nobody cares about me?' If that is what you think, then you are wrong, for this friend cared so much that He gave His life for you, and no one loves you quite like Him. His name is Jesus, and He is God’s Son who came into this world to seek and save lost and lonely people.
You may ask, ‘Why did He die?’ And the answer is simple. The wrong things that we do (which perhaps seem insignificant to us, especially when we look at the awful things other people do) are a significant problem to Him. All sin, small or great, offends His Father God, who has pledged that sin and sinners must and will be punished for ‘the soul that sinneth shall die’. So He (The Lord Jesus) came into the world to save sinners. He took the punishment we deserved so that God could forgive us (and be right and fair simultaneously).
You ask me, ‘How are you so sure?’ My response would be, 'He is my friend and has been for almost 50 years.' I have depended on Him in times of sadness, bereavement, loneliness, and despair, and He has never let me down.
If you admit to God that you have sinned (just where you are just now, stop and pray) and accept the sinner’s Saviour, you, too, will enjoy a friendship that will outlast time itself and remain with you throughout the great eternity.
What a friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and grief to bear
What a privilege to carry everything to Him in prayer
O what peace we often forfeit O what needless pain we bear
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.
Written by a dear friend of mine who is now living in Heaven - Ian Affleck
All photos courtesy of Unsplash
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